Hastings and Bexhill Area Breast Cancer Support Group
Meeting Feedback
This feedback will help members unable to attend a
meeting keep up with what's been
happening, and give non-members an idea of what we
do at our meetings.
August 2021
We met up again! How lovely to meet on Bexhill seafront for
a chat and catch up and to be able to welcome some of our
newer members.
September 2021
Our first indoor meeting at The Pelham. Obviously some
people were still nervous about meeting indoors, so it was a
small start with only 7 of us, but sharing experiences is, as
always, very worthwhile.
October 2021
More people felt happier about attanding this meeting, and
we were able to welcome a new member to the group.
Although our meetings are not yet back to how they were pre
Covid, it’s definitely great to be able to meet face to face to
discuss problems with others.
November 2021
What a difference a month makes - unfortunately due to
Covid numbers rising yet again, people are getting nervous
about meeting together inside again, a smaller meeting
again, but good non the less.
December 2021
Christmas meeting. Lets make it a bit of a party we thought -
but only myself and another attended. However, we did enjoy
the nibbles and had a great catch up, so nothing lost. But a
decision was made - to revert back to online meetings until
everyone felt safer from Covid.
April 2022
Lovely to face to face again, just 9 of us but that included 2
new members, who loved meeting and chatting to us all.
May 2022
Great meeting up again, lots of talk and laughter with some
fundraising ideas thrown in. Janet is hoping to start up her
fitness classes again depending on interest.
June 2022
A great meeting, buzzing with ideas for a July fundraiser
being organised by Cath and Janet. On top of that Emma
presented the group with £310 collected from her Jubilee
Street Party - brilliant!
July 2022
Nice to be back among so many friends old and new, a real
sign that our face to face meetings are back on track.
We had an informative talk from Fiona Conner, Cancer Care
Co-ordinator for eight surgeries across Bexhill. Part of her
role is to designate a Cancer Champion in every surgery, who
will be a first point of contact for any concerns we may have
re our diagnosis, treatment test results etc. Members raised
several problems experienced during treatment and after
care from some surgeries and she promised to investigate
and pass on to GPs during her regular meetings with them,
this also included Breast Care Nurses. A list of the designated
champions from each surgery will soon be available for us –
all surgeries in East Sussex have received finance to set up
similar schemes, but Fiona could obviously only talk about
the Bexhill surgeries, but said she would find information for
members in rural areas. She was very enthusiastic about our
group and wished to stay involved and visit us regularly.
Emma and Janet were selling raffle tickets like hot cakes and
had a huge list of super raffle prizes for our Tea and Clothes
Swap Event – it looks to be a good one!
May 2022
Numbers are beginning to pick up again - a lovely meeting,
with a chance to off load some of our worries, ideas and tips
for coping and generally verbalise the thoughts only others in
the exclusive group can identify with.
June 2022
Our group is not a fundraising group, and it’s not our main
aim at all, in fact we rarely discuss it, but we do, from time to
time, have to think what we can do to boost our funds as we
are a self-funded group. This time Janet, Emma and Cath
have come up with a brilliant idea of a clothes swap and
cuppa event, they enthusiastically shared their ideas which
everyone thought were wonderful. More information will be
filtered through to our members as this progresses.
August 2022
Wow, what a fundraiser that was £1892 - amazing. A perfect
event, coming together of leisurely, catching up with friends
Thank you We also welcomed Judith, who will be attending
all our meetings in the future, offering a relaxing foot
massage to our members.
September 2022
Good to see so many and as always hope you enjoyed the
meeting as much as I did, we also welcomed two new
members which is always lovely. Emma told us she had been
invited to East Grinstead for a “Show and Tell Day” this is to
give those recently diagnosed a chance to see the results of
surgery, and speak of their experiences. She will be giving
feedback information at one of our meetings in the future.
One of the issues that was raised was the side effects of the
variety of drugs we take and why the same drug, but different
manufacturers, cause problems for some of us. We hope to
find a friendly pharmasist who would be willing to come
along to the group and answer some questions on this.
October 2022
A small but perfectly formed met on 12 October. Two of our
members brought along home-made cakes, we also enjoyed
some nibbles and drinks in celebration of Breast Cancer
Awareness month, It was good to enjoy each others company
and while being supportive in our usual way we had time to
talk of other events in our lives – which was really nice. In the
past we have been lucky enough to have two therapists
attend our meetings and so Bess came along to discuss the
neck and shoulder massage she could offer us. All being
good we hope to have her in action at our next meeting Nov
9.
November 2022
Great meeting last night, questions asked, frustrations aired,
new ladies and a new therapist. Most of us came out with
either a soothed pair of feet, or more relaxed after neck and
head massage.
We also sampled some delicious Swedish cake from Claire,
and Gloria provided us with lots of laughs - what more could
you ask for eh?