Hastings and Bexhill Area Breast Cancer Support Group
Frequently Asked Questions
We hope you will find these FAQ’s helpful, but try contacting
any of the following for further help.
Breast Cancer Care – who have helplines and literature on
almost everything.
Breast Care Nurse, Breast Surgeon, GP or Community nurses.
See also Helping Someone with Breast Cancer.
Q - If I’ve had cancer in my breast, am I more likely to get
any other cancers?
A - Generally there is no evidence to suggest so after
completion of treatment.
Q - When I go for check-ups there are no blood tests or
scans, how do you know I haven’t got cancer anywhere
else?
A - Research has shown that doing blood tests and scans
does not pick up problems any sooner, but do raise anxiety
levels unnecessarily. Mammograms have been found to be
helpful but that is all.
Q - I’ve heard that you have to have reconstructive
implants replaced after a while, is that true?
A - It depends on the type of implants used and the bodies
response to them.
Q - If I have a grade 2 tumour, what exactly does that
mean?
A - Breast tumours are graded 1 – 3, three being the most
aggressive when viewed down the microscope.
Q - We often hear the term "being in remission" what
does that mean?
A - This is not generally a term used in the field of breast
cancer. We use the term "disease free interval" which
hopefully means for life!
Q - Because Tamoxifen is a hormonal control drug, and I
have taken it for 5 years, will there be any side effects
when I stop taking it?
A - Hopefully not – in fact people can feel better if they have
had menopausal like symptoms whilst on it.
Q - How soon can I use deodorant after breast surgery?
A - If axilla surgery has taken place, wait a month or so.
Q - Now that my hair is growing back after
Chemotherapy treatment, I also seem to be growing
some light fluffy facial hair on the side of my face; it has
become so obvious to me that I’ve felt I had to trim it. Is
this normal?
A - Don’t worry this is normal, and often happens with
chemotherapy/hormonal treatments, but it almost always
resolves itself after treatment. Some of our group have
suffered this and like you were worried but are fine now.
Q - It has been 9 months since I finished my treatment,
having had a mastectomy, chemotherapy and
radiotherapy, and I still find I have no real energy. I am
also taking the drug Arimidex. Will I ever get back to
normal?
A - Almost everyone regains their levels of energy, but every
treatment carries a "fatigue factor" and this can be a
cumulative problem which may take months to resolve. It
does not mean that there is anything wrong.
Q - I appear to be going through the menopause, and
have had breast cancer and have heard that taking HRT
would not be a good idea. Is there anything else on the
market?
A - Many breast cancers are driven by hormones in which
case HRT is really not advisable. Talk to your Breast Care
Nurse or doctor about menopausal symptoms. A range of
herbal, medicinal remedies/complementary therapies are
worth exploring.
Q - When I had breast cancer surgery a mastectomy was
recommended and reconstruction offered, but I didn’t
want that, I just wanted to get rid of the cancer. At first I
was just glad to be over the trauma and accepted my
"flat chest" on one side, but now 5 years down the line I
wished I’d had reconstructive surgery. Would that still be
possible?
A - Yes, it could be considered. Have a discussion with your
breast care nurse or surgeon. (Also see booklet from Breast
Cancer Care)
Q - I’ve had a lumpectomy, which has left me feeling a bit
"lop-sided". I know that there are prosthesis available to
those who have had a mastectomy, but what about
people like me?
A - It may well be possible to gain symmetry, talk to your
breast care nurse or appliance fitter.
Q - I’m young and had had a mastectomy and
reconstructive surgery, which I am very happy with. I still
feel I can where skimpy tops without feeling different,
but when I take off my clothes and look into the mirror I
am reminded of what I’ve had done, as I have no nipple
on that side. Is there anything available that would make
me look more normal?
A - There are prosthetic nipples which stick on. Many
surgeons will reconstruct a nipple, a simple procedure.
Q - Most of the women who suffer from breast cancer
seem to be in the "over 50’s" age group. I find the local
support group very useful and supportive but there are
issues that I feel only apply to me as I am somewhat
younger. Is there anything out there aimed at my age
group?
A - Yes. Breast Cancer Care produces literature and has
telephone helplines. Also your Breast care nurse may run a
group for younger women or introduce you to another or
other patients of similar age.
Intimate FAQ’s (Questions you always wanted to
ask, but were not brave enough.)
Q - I am in my early 50’s, I had my surgery, chemo and
radiotherapy treatment 6 years ago, I took Tamoxifen for
5 yrs and have been off it for 1 year now and have not
had a period since my surgery. Does this mean that the
treatment has taken me through the menopause and
that I no longer need to take precautions whilst having
sex?
A - It is possible to conceive up to two years after the last
period. If in doubt a blood test can clarify menopausal status.
No treatments for breast cancer should be regarded as
contraceptive in their action’
Q - During my breast cancer treatment (chemo,
radiotherapy etc) I felt unable to cope with a sexual
relationship, but now a year on, I still find this difficult as
I find sexual intercourse painful. I am only in my 30’s and
feel this could cause a problem in my relationship with
my partner.
A - Problems with libido can result from treatments for breast
cancer or from the huge emotional upheaval which can take
place. Usually these difficulties can be overcome. Talk to your
breast cancer nurse who will advise you or put you in contact
with other agencies who can help.
Q - After treatment for my breast cancer I found that I
am suffering from vaginal dryness, making intimate
relationships difficult. I have read about various products
on the market, but some of them say that they are
hormonal, are these OK to use?
A - Yes, most doctors/oncologists are happy with the use of a
local lubricant even if it contains low grade hormonal content.
You can check with your pharmacist or breast care nurse if
you are unsure.
Q - I have suffered from vaginal dryness since my
treatment for breast cancer. Just recently my husband
and I had sex and I found that I bled a little immediately
afterwards. I panicked, the bleeding did not continue;
will this happen every time we attempt sexual
intercourse? Do I need to worry?
A - Do not worry. Do check that the bleeding is in fact
associated with intercourse only, especially if taking
Tamoxifen, in which case advice from your GP should be
sought.
Usually with lubrication this will settle, tissues around the
vagina can get dry and tense as a result of treatments,
however, should it persist ask for advice.